Rez Living
Living on the reservation has been good to me and my family. I can say
that it is a very different experience living off the reservation then on. Living
off the reservation can be challenging at times.
For me growing up on the reservation has instilled family values
because of the family unity that develops, living off the reservation is not as easy. When
you are old enough to apply for land (which are family allotments), you will have
immediate family that lives all around you which doesn’t exist off the
reservation. Of course families have their ups and downs but that’s just a part
of life, and for the majority of the time, who wouldn’t want family around? As
a child I remember the good times that my family and I shared with my aunt (my
mom’s sister) and her family who, by the way, lived right next door. They would
have late night card games and us kids would play hide and seek which sometimes
the parents would join in or we would watch movies. The best part was that we didn’t
have to pile into a car to go home; we just had to walk next door.

As I said earlier regarding family unity on the reservation, there’s
usually a pretty big circumference of extended family members from aunts to
uncles to cousins all around. I remember I loved to go with my mom to visit her
family or friends. If they were cooking, we were always invited to join them,
but the visit in itself was the part I liked. They always had the best stories talking
about when they were younger and how the reservation was and how things were back
then. I find myself starting to do that now, when I am able to see my friends
and catch up and with my daughter when she was younger and liked to sit and
listen to us talk. There are always people there to lend a helping hand when
needed. In the city, you don’t have that big support system all around; you’re
lucky if you even know your neighbors. Life on the reservation is very tight
knit because you do pretty much know most of the families, which is a big plus
because everyone keeps on eye on each other for the most part. Whether kids
were making good choices or not, our parents would always seem to find out. Even
my daughter would say “How did you find out” and I would tell her “Hello! They
know who you are and who you belong to!”
Community gatherings are nice to participate in, whether they are happy
or sad times: a sport event, a powwow, a certain celebration, a holiday, a
funeral, etc. These are the times when the community really shows their support
by helping out whether it is bringing food, setting up or breaking down,
serving food or whatever is needed at the time. I appreciated the community
coming together to help my family and I when my mom passed away in 2007, my sisters death in 2011 and again
when my dad passed away in 2012.
Life on the reservation is very comfortable, you can be at ease with
raising your kids here and I have to say that there is a lot of love and
support that comes from living on this reservation. It is a good foundation for
kids to have before they decide to go and have adventures off the reservation.
If we are lucky, they return one day to share their knowledge and experiences
to make the reservation even a better place.
Hello, my name is Tammy S. Spoonhunter. I am a tribal member with the Bishop Paiute Tribe and I presently reside on the Bishop Paiute Reservation in Bishop, CA. I have lived on the reservation for approximately 35 years and 8 years off the reservation.
Group events are awesome to join in, whether they are satisfied or sad times: an activity occasion, a powwow, a certain party, a vacation, a memorial, etc. These are the periods when town really reveals their assistance by assisting out whether it is providing meals, establishing up or splitting down, providing meals or whatever is required at the time. I valued town arriving together to help my loved ones members and I when my mom approved away in 2007, my siblings loss of life this year and again when my dad approved away this year.
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Thank you Unkown for sharing your thoughts! I see that you may speak another language other then english. Some words were lost in translation but the sentiment was still there. Thanks again for reading our stories.
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